After having a baby, the mother is often showered with gifts.  Usually the gifts are really for the baby and not for the mother.  Not so with the “push present” ~ typically some jewelry.  When a son is born it’s Korean tradition for the in-laws to gift the baby mama.  Mother-in-law selected a jade frog ring to symbolize luck.  I picked the present from baby daddy, a sapphire and diamond band ring.